Nix Nerves: Pro Tip 2

Remind yourself it’s all about your audience

Consider that when we are genuinely nervous, another contributing factor is—and let this sink in—that we’re too focused on ourselves and our own performance. Rather does anything positive happen when we are fixating on I-focused questions such as:

– What if I mess up?
– What if I forget to say something?
– I wonder if they’ll like me.
– I wonder if they’ll think Bob did a better job.
– Did I wear the right suit?
– Are my pants zipped?

(Actually, that last one is a good question to ask.)

Instead of focusing on ourselves, turn that I-focus into a you-focus. Think of your
presentation as a gift you are giving your audience; it’s a special message you’ve
customized especially for them.